#8 FRIENDS, GROUPS & FINDING YOUR FIT tips & treasures
3-Part Audio PEP TALKS filled with evidence-based tools and teen-tested wellbeing and mindset boosting tips, to support young people aged 12 -18 (but not limited to) feel better equipped to tackle life’s ups and downs more confidently.
TOTAL – 63 minutes
#8 is complemented by Pep Talks #1, 2, 6 & 7
Part 1 – FRIENDS MAKE LIFE BETTER includes –
21 minutes
1. Why teens prioritise their friendships so much
2. Connection and friendship changes the teen brain and why this matters so much
3. 10 green friendship flags to help teens look for the GOLD in friendships
4. Four chunks of friendship advice for teens
Part 2 – GROUPS, CHOICES & DRAMA DIAL DOWN includes –
21 minutes
1. The big 6 Questions and why/how they impact friendships and group dynamics
2. The 3 L’s and how they can change a friendship instantly
3. There’s no one-size-fits-all friendship recipe
4. Responsibility starts with each teen, and that’s a good thing
5. Why teen gossip is a no-go zone
6. How teens can dial down drama and stay clear of it
7. Two questions teens can use to pour a bucket of water on the gossip fire
Part 3 – JUDGEMENT, ASSUMPTIONS & THE GRUDGE CLUB includes –
21 minutes
1. Why judgement is ok in cafés but not between humans
2. How judgement damages connections between teens
3. Helping teens see the no-one has to be right or wrong, it’s ok to be different
4. Three ways to replace ‘judgy’ thoughts.
5. Understanding the teen brain, and when it’s stressed, why it acts in weird ways
6. THINK AGAIN technique to change thought pathways
7. Teen grudges and how to make sense of them?
8. Teen grudges and why they hang out with big ugly emotions
9. The final thoughts – generosity, perfection and saying sorry